Sex Chat Room Etiquette and Rules


By participating in this chat service, users acknowledge that they have a basic knowledge of, and agree to the site’s Terms of Service and Privacy Policies, and the following rules.

To keep the chat spam-free, fun, open to exploring, and safe for our users, there are several basic rules that we need you to follow.

No one under 18, or pretending to be under the age of 18 years, is allowed to use this site. If you are aware of a user who is not 18 or older you need to alert the moderator(s).

Asking another person to pretend that they are less than 18 years old is not allowed.

Impersonating any user is strictly prohibited and will get you permanently banned from using this chat system.

No flooding the room with the same comment over and over again.


  • User5951: Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
  • >Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
  • > Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
  • User8031: hi every one.
  • Moderator: User5951, please do not flood the room.
  • User5951: Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
  • User5951 has been frozen by Moderator

Phone numbers, social networking pages (Facebook, Myspace, etc), messenger IDs (yahoo, msn, aim, gtalk, skype, meebo, etc), and email addresses are not allowed in the public chat areas.


  • User6832: any one want to talk? Call me 555-5555
  • User6832 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User9301: hot guys add me on —
  • User9301 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User0053: Guys! heres my profile
  • User0053 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User8056: Heres my im / yahoo / msn id! Hot/f /22/earth imma.scammer
  • User8056 has been kicked by Moderator

Did you get auto-kicked by the system for simply trying to send your email addy, even in a PM or private message? You may have seen a message displayed in the sex chat room about profanity. Information about the profanity filter in the comments here.

Do not promote commercial or affiliated products, services, or websites.


  • User3925: hi guys, my best friend just got married to a millionaire he met her at and they’re living happy together and are filthy rich. You don’t have to be rich to join!
  • User3925 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User7253: I grew my dick 8” now all the girls cant wait to fuck me! You can too guys just use instant-growth.
  • User7253 has been kicked by Moderator

Do not post commercial urls, or urls to other chat systems or porn sites.


  • User4867: Free access to all things Porn!
  • User4867 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User6625: Come here and chat! 8 girls to every guy!!
  • User6625 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User9067: check this place out the prices are great!
  • User9067 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User1945: hahaha look at this video
  • Moderator: hahaha thats hilarious!

Links to YouTube and are allowed to be posted sparingly.

Cam invites and requests are not allowed in the lobbies.


  • User6253: Any woman who will let me see her cam?
  • User6253 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User2534: Hey boys im f 18 on cam come see me now!
  • User3925: I want to see your cam User2534!!!!!
  • User2534 has been kicked by Moderator
  • User3925 has been kicked by Moderator

Hate speech, religious topics, and political conversations are not permitted in the public rooms. If you want to discuss such topics you may create another room.


  • Government Leaders
  • Current wars
  • Racism
  • Attacking any Faith
  • Promoting any religion

important additional information about racial jokes, ethnic statements and hate speech here.

Chat Room Etiquette

Users who repeatedly break and or abuse these rules will be warned. If users continue to break the rules they will be kick and/or banned.

No continual use of complete capitol letters is allowed, unless they are used sparingly. Usage of ALL CAPITOL LETTERS is considered to be YELLING in the online world.


  • User6903 has been warned by Moderator
  • Moderator: User6903, please ease up on the caps.
  • >YAY FOR CAPS!!!!
  • User6903 has been kicked by Moderator

Be polite; ask someone in the main chat if they would like to PM with you before start to private message them. Many people, especially women, consider PMing without asking first to be very rude.

The ignore button is a great feature! If someone is pming you with out permission, or saying things in the chat room that you do not want to hear, simply click their name on the list and select ‘block user.’ You will not see any comment by that person for the rest of your login period in the chat site.

This chat service is open-minded on many fantasies; however, not all topics are allowed in the main lobbies. For this reason we have created several other rooms for you to explore your wet and wild dreams. If you want to take part in such discussions simply click the green arrow and door icon door-icon at the top of the chat area to change to your desired fantasy room.

Not all topics beyond sexual fantasies (politics, religion, etc) are permitted in the lobbies. If you and another person or a group would like to discuss a topic that is not allowed in the lobby, you may take your conversation to private messaging or create a new room.

We have an active community of regular users, also known as regs, here on our site who are usually friendly and helpful. If you’re new here, take some time to get to know the regs and the moderators. Just like in real life, the relationships online take some time to build, so hang out for a while to get to know the other users and vice versa. Enjoy the banter, the interchanges, the craziness, and the humor and you’ll be just fine. Remember, patience and courtesy go a long way to help you learn about how to use the site and help you find a person to have a great sex chat session.

Nickname Guidelines

Many users include their age-sex-location in their screen name. Doing this is not necessary but it is rather helpful and will help decrease the time it takes to find a session.


  • Jenny f-25-uk
  • Sexy Man-39-TN
  • Hard4you 19-m-india
  • Wet&wild 46/f/Australia

Users who have names that do not comply with the following guidelines will be warned and given a chance to change their name, users who do not change their name will be kicked from the room.

IM IDs (yahoo, skype, gtalk, msn, etc) social networking profiles, and emails are not allowed to be used as names.


  • Imma.scammer6969(sk ype me)
  • Horselongdong at FB

Phone numbers are not permitted in names.


  • Call me 555-555-555
  • Hot phone sex!! 1-888-211-6096

Url based nicknames are not allowed.



Coming to the rooms with a name including rape, incest, bestiality, or another controversial term or a variation, you may get kicked from the system if you stay in the lobby. Edge-play / taboo terms (terms that are not well accepted in the mainstream world) are not allowed to be in the lobby. However, you can keep terms that are not accepted in the lobby, as long as they are allowed in the system, if you go to another room such as the forced sex room or the family fun room that do not find the terms offensive.

Having any references to “cam” is not allowed.


  • horny M c2c
  • hot babe camming
  • here 4 webcaming f 21 uk

This rule is for your protection, there are many scammers out in cyber space promising a cheap cam session in order to get your credit card numbers. DO NOT GIVE YOUR CREDIT CARD NUMBER TO ANYONE YOU MEET IN A CHAT ROOM!

This web site follows the ASACP guidelines for unacceptable terms – using any of the terms listed below, or similar variations in your screen name or lobby conversations will get you permanently banned from using this site.


Any name with pedophile, child, kid, or any other terms that suggest that you are underage or are looking for some one underage, or is any variation deemed unacceptable by a Moderator(s).


  • Pedro phile 24 m
  • Horny4kds 32 f
  • Lookin4HS FreshmenChicksM 18
  • Lilly f 15

The terms boy and girl are highly discouraged. If you want one of these terms in your name, you should add your age to your screen-name so that your age is made clear.


Questionable Names:

  • Young Hard Boy
  • Small Girl Pussy
  • Acceptable Names:
  • Little wet girl18
  • Hard boy19

The Moderators

Our chat rooms have volunteer Moderators who help people and enforce the rules to provide our users with a safe and fun, chatting environment. When a Moderator is in their ‘Admin’ role, their name will appear red in the list of names to the right of the chat area. Please remember Mods are people too, who want to enjoy conversations with friends and they often have private messages and whispers that they are keeping track of along with the lobbies and other rooms. If you have a problem or witness a serious infraction you are more than welcome to pm a Moderator for help and tell them about the incident, which they will be happy to help you with.

Sometimes the Moderators will be in the room but will not appear in red. Sometimes a moderator will be in a room with a regular users name, and not in moderator / admin mode. Sometimes a moderator or site admin could be in a room and be completely invisible. Some moderator’s names will appear as yellow or purple. If you need help go into the main lobby and ask for a Moderator, chances are that there will be a Mod logged in or someone who can reach a Moderator for you.

Please be nice to the Moderators, they are very busy people and have a lot of different things to take care of in the rooms. They can easily misunderstand something a person types, so be polite since they can ban you for just for taking up their time. To make sure the room is taken care of Moderators are given the power to warn (an alert shows up on the selected user’s screen), freeze (the user is unable to talk for a period of time), kick (the user is removed from the room for several minutes to a day) and ban a user and their IP address from our chat system forever. If you have a complaint about a Moderator, there is a Moderator complaint page where you can alert the site owner.

A note about user created chat rooms, room operators and mods

If you enter a user created chat room, there may be a username in purple, and that user will have the some of the abilities of a site moderator, including the ability to kick you from their chat room. User created room mods do not necessarily have to follow the rules and guidelines that are established for our official site admins and moderators. If a user created room mod decides to kick you for whatever reason, please do not complain to the site admins, as we do not have any control over user created room moderators. Our official site admins and moderators may choose to enter user created rooms on occasion, and their names may appear normal, in red, yellow, purple or simply be invisible. As outlined on our privacy policy, site admins and moderators may on occasion also enter password protected rooms as well. We highly suggest you read and understand the privacy policy information, and check for updates when you use our site.

Be Defensive!

If there is a user who is talking about something that you do not want to hear or is continually pming you after you have asked them to stop, simply click their name on the list of users (participants panel) and select ‘Block User’ – you will not be able to see any of their comments for the rest of your login time. (It’s the magical “poof! They are gone button, otherwise known as the iggy button)

Some female users change their setting to so that they do not receive private messages due to the large amounts of pms they receive when they log on. gear-iconYou can do this by selecting the gear icon at the top of the page and selecting ‘Ignore private messages.’ You can change this setting at any time during your stay.


Be careful of people asking for email, messenger IDs, phone numbers, or any other personal information these people may be getting your information to sell to spammers. Some people who ask you to add them on an instant messenger will only add you to ask you to go to their ‘live cam’ page or to visit their pay-per minute site. There are many scams targeting people trying to get a cyber session do not give any one your credit card number!

Some links can be extremely harmful for your computer if you click on them. This is the reason for not allowing links besides a few sites to be posted in the lobby. Avoid malware and viruses by not clicking on links posted in the lobby or pms unless you know that the site is a safe, secure, and well trusted site, you should also have an up to date antivirus and spyware software installed on your computer. The majority of unauthorized links posted in the lobby will only try to sell you items, ask for your email and credit card information, or scam you in another way. We suggest that you not click on the links in the lobby unless it is to the sites permitted by the rules.

Unless you want to have your email sold to spammers, don’t give your email or instant messenger IDs out to people who you meet in the chat room. They will most likely sell your information and you will soon be flooded with spam. If you want to stay in contact with some of the people you meet in the chat room you may want to think about creating an email address so that your main email address does not receive the possible spam.

If anyone tries to solicit you to engage in another sex chat site, or another commercial web site, or try to get you send money or credit card information, send a private message to one of the moderators if they are in the room and let them know. We don’t want our users to get scammed, spammed, or solicited for commercial anything in our free chat rooms, so help us help you, and help others, by reporting any of that activity.

Arguments / Drama / Flame wars, fanning

We prefer that arguments not be ongoing drama in the lobby. If you disagree with another user, agree to disagree and do not fill up the chat window with flame wars, or fan the flames either. Use the ignore / block button to silence someone who is typing what you don’t want to hear. People who continually argue, or continue to attempt to entice others in arguing can and will be banned from the site.

More important info

Harassing other users, a group of users, or the moderators is grounds for being kicked, banned, and or prosecuted. This has been a part of the terms of service since the site was started. I am re-mentioning it here to bring your attention to it, additional info is found on our terms of use page. There are serious issues with not only being kicked from the chat room, but also in us recording and giving up your personally identifying information in cases of harassment in some cases.

Harass – (from webster’s dictionary online) (1) : to annoy persistently (2) : to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct

harassment (from ) (either harris-meant or huh-rass-meant) n. the act of systematic and/or continued unwanted and annoying actions of one party or a group, including threats and demands. The purposes may vary, including racial prejudice, personal malice, an attempt to force someone to quit a job or grant sexual favors, apply illegal pressure to collect a bill, or merely gain sadistic pleasure from making someone fearful or anxious. Such activities may be the basis for a lawsuit if due to discrimination based on race or sex, a violation on the statutory limitations on collection agencies, involve revenge by an ex-spouse, or be shown to be a form of blackmail (“I’ll stop bothering you, if you’ll go to bed with me”). The victim may file a petition for a “stay away” (restraining) order, intended to prevent contact by the offensive party. A systematic pattern of harassment by an employee against another worker may subject the employer to a lawsuit for failure to protect the worker. (See: harass, sexual harassment)

GFA Clause – if you are generally fucking annoying, you may be kicked or banned. This includes all kinds of things, and may mean different things to different people, but if for example you just type some gibberish, or try to make fun of the rules, or push the limits, or just post some stupid you tube links, or do anything else that annoys the group or one of the moderators you can and will be kicked under the GFA clause.

By participating in this chat service, users acknowledge that they have knowledge of, and agree to the site’s Terms of Service and Privacy Policies and rules posted above. It is highly recommended that anyone using this chat site, or any other chat system on the internet to have a firm understanding of the sex chat room safety information as well. Instructing other users on ways to minimize the ads that are normally displayed on our sites is a perma ban offense that could also carry other civil damages as well.

Violating’s Terms of Service or the chat room’s rules or etiquette policies will result with you being kicked from our chat services temporarily or possibly being permanently banned.

Many times our moderators will warn and or educate a user before they are kicked / banned – but this is not always the case, there is no rule that moderator must warn before kicking a user who is breaking the rules.

Some kicks/bans only last for five minutes, while other may last one hour, six hours, twelve hours, or even twenty-four hours. Users who have committed major offenses will be permanently banned.

Users who were banned from the chat system and still cannot join the chat after waiting 36 hours, have been permanently banned.

DO NOT post a question here about your ban unless you have waited 25 hours, tried to re-access the chat, and are still unable to login.

Comments or questions about a ban that occurred in the past 24 hours will not be answered.

  90 Responses to “Sex Chat Room Etiquette and Rules”

  1. i am not able to login to the rooms as it displays a message “you have been banned” from the last 3 days….what should i do to get back? plz unban me

    • rishabh – unless you can tell me which rules you may have broken, it would be difficult for me to determine if we should consider changing your ban.

  2. why i am banned without giving any warning? i used to chat with different names at different times from my pc thats why i m banned but i was not aware of that rule to chat and not any warning is also given, plz give me permisson to chat i will obey this rule again……

  3. Dear admin,
    I have been banned for So many day, i forgot the rules and i ll not do this again please let me chat again, and forgive me it ll not happen next time.

  4. is there any gal to chat about sex

  5. any boy want to fuck my hot pussy or ass

  6. please unbanned me, i will not break the rule in future

  7. please allow me to enter the best friend is there i want to tell him something.i will not do any wrong thing in future.please allow me.

  8. please allow me to enter the best friend is there i want to tell him something.i will not do any wrong thing .please allow me.

  9. Thank u

  10. Hey I’m not very new but I’ve came to hear of u in the past five days a lot you are doing a great job 🙂 and getting back on with compulsory registration is punch on those hackers 🙂 best wishes and regards 🙂

  11. dear admin…… y am i not connecting to the sex chat?
    what was my mistake?
    if any mistake done by me pls excuse me and i will not gonna repeat again……….
    thank u admin

    • The free sex chat rooms are broken today. We are working on a fix – but it may be a couple days before it gets fixed. Sorry.

  12. hi,i was banned because i gave my email id to some one publicly although i didnt realise it was not allowed.after this i hav been encountering a white screen everytime i enter the site and dont even see the login screen,i just see the connecting cirle and thats it…when will my ban expire?or this just a connection issue?i was banned yesterday afternoon..ranjeet.

  13. I guess i have been banned. May I request you to please remove the ban so i can meet my friends in here

  14. plz excu se me this time

  15. Its been more than 48hours i have been banned. and i also dont know the reason for it. can i get a solution asap.

  16. Its been more than 48hours i have been banned. and i also dont know the reason for it.

  17. Hey I’m here to get dirty

  18. I hve been unable to login to the chat room from 25th dec,2012 on 9.30 pm onwards. a white blank screen appears on chat room screen. nothing is seen.Please look in to the matter.

  19. hi frnds always neeed friends of some kind

  20. My name is Mazen
    I want to talk with the girl sex

  21. All the world’s women are beautiful

  22. I hve been unable to login to the chat room.Though once i got msg that i hve been banned but the reason not disclosed.I think it was the mistake of moderator or admistrator.Please look in to the matter

  23. i used bad words on a gal who pissed me off…im banned now….im sorry for that..can i get back again???

  24. HI… I m chat with sex u

  25. Lets get it started.

  26. i my name is a avinash i want a sex chat with girl

  27. Hi. . Sexy.

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  29. how r u ?

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  31. i need sex

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  33. hi

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  35. wanna talk sexy

  36. Hey wna have good chat with handsum dude

  37. HI I LOVE 2 CHAT

  38. hello

  39. hey ANY hoot girls there..??


  41. I am very fond of sex chats with sexy Indian girls

  42. hey is anybody there

  43. i am erotic but sensible . i am very fond of sex chat. wish that here i ill be greatly satisfied.

  44. i like it

  45. hey is anybody there

  46. i am erotic but sensible . i am very fond of sex chat. wish that here i ill be greatly satisfied.

  47. wat the hell is this …. i came back to india ,,, nd the whole sex chat thing is changed ….. where are ma frens i used to talk to ….. wher is mickey … wher is fine wine ..???? where is ladylikes …??? chessa ……. big tex ???? nobody … every body is vanished … i hate this SnoopDoc™

  48. love is life

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